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Beginners cross stitch: the ultimate tutorial [Updated May 2017]

Beginners cross stitch: the ultimate tutorial [Updated May 2017]

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Have you ever looked at beginners cross stitch projects and didn’t even know where to start? Or do you have friends that look at your projects longingly saying “I wish I was that talented”? Whether you need some beginners cross stitch tutorials for yourself or someone you know, this guide will help you learn everything you need to know to get stitching straight away! This collection of tutorials and tips is a roundup of some of the most popular tutorials for beginners. If you’d like to see more information on any of the topics, click the title to be taken to the full blog post.


Quick beginners cross stitch tutorial

First off, the video below shows a quick overview of how to cross stitch. I briefly discuss how to do the loop method to start (as well as just using a simple knot if that’s easier), and how to do full cross stitch and backstitch. In this video, I demonstrate with the simple free cross stitch pattern Tiny Heart how to follow a cross stitch pattern. Currently all Peacock & Fig patterns use only full cross stitches and back stitch, so by learning these simple stitches you can stitch any of the patterns in the cross stitch pattern shop! So start with this brief video, and then if you would like more information, see below for more detailed videos! Any links I mention in the videos are listed at the bottom of this post.




Cross stitch basics: materials needed

In the video below, I go into more detail about the materials that you need to start stitching. Cross stitch is such a simple craft and you only need a few basics to get started with a beginners cross stitch project. Cross stitch fabric, tapestry needles, embroidery floss and scissors are your basics, and I also demonstrate a few different ways to hold your fabric such as embroidery hoops and scroll frames.




Cross stitch basics: stitching a cross stitch

If you’re unsure of how to form a cross stitch itself, this video shows more details about how to do that. In cross stitch you’re making two small diagonal stitches / and \, and overlapping them so they make an X. There are two main methods of stitching a cross stitch. The English method is when you form one “leg” of your stitch and then the other, completing your stitch before moving onto the next stitch. The pictures below show the Danish method, which is doing one half of your stitches in one direction, and then coming back and finishing the top half of the stitch. There is no right or wrong method, you can try both and see which method you prefer. Click here to see a full tutorial on the English versus the Danish method. In cross stitch it’s good to practice having your top stitches always going the same way. It doesn’t matter which way you prefer (/ or \), but if you form the habit when you first start stitching it’s a lot easier to always do it that way. You want your top stitches facing the same direction as they reflect the light more evenly across the piece once it’s finished, so the colours look uniform.




Cross stitch basics: how to follow a pattern

Once you have practiced your basic cross stitch a bit and you’re comfortable with it, the next thing you will want to do is practice with a pattern. In the video below you’ll see what a cross stitch chart looks like, and what the symbols mean. Here is the blog post with the free cross stitch chart featured in the video. For your first cross stitch project, just make sure you have enough fabric to stitch the design. The finished size is usually indicated on patterns. The little free pattern featured in this video is approximately 1 ½” square (4 cm) on 14 count fabric. As long as you have a few inches spare around the edges, don’t worry too much for your first project about getting it centred on the fabric. There’s another video tutorial showing you exactly how to do that below in this post, or you can see the tutorial about how to centre your fabric here.



free cross stitch patterns


Cross stitch basics: how to backstitch

One stitch that is very useful for cross stitch beginners is backstitch. Backstitch is found in many cross stitch patterns. It’s the (usually) thin black lines that give details to a design, such as whiskers, facial expressions, and outlines. Here is an image of stitching the backstitch in the That’s What She Said cross stitch pattern — it really brings the pattern to life. Backstitch can also be used for writing and text on the pattern, or even signing your initials in the corner of a completed piece. It’s a very simple stitch, it just takes time to do. You stitch the backstitch after the cross stitch is done (as sometimes it crosses over your cross stitching), and many stitchers prefer to leave it to the last part of their project.

That's What She Said beginners cross stitch backstitch

That's What She Said beginners cross stitch backstitch 



Cross stitch basics: washing cross stitch

The last thing important skill in this beginners cross stitch series is learning how to wash your cross stitch at the end of your stitching project. The video below shows you the easiest way to do this, so it won’t take you long at all. No matter how careful you are with keeping your hands clean while you stitch, oils from your hands will always transfer to your floss and fabric. Over time these oils will start to turn your project yellow, and eventually it will start to deteriorate. To protect all the hard work you just did, the best practice is to wash your pieces before you finish them or frame them.



Bonus videos for cross stitch beginners


Below are three videos to help beginners get more out of their stitching projects. These will give you extra skills to boost your confidence as a stitcher, and help you progress to more advanced skills. Cross stitch is a very simple craft, but there are many techniques and tricks to make stitching more enjoyable and improve how your finished product looks.


Cross stitch tutorial: the loop method and pin stitch

This first video is how to start your stitching using the loop method, and how to end your threads using a pin stitch. These two techniques mean you will never have to make a knot ever again, which keeps your back from ending up with lumpy knots. The loop method is very simple — you fold your floss in half and “anchor” your thread by passing your needle through the loop. Here are some images demonstrating this:

The video shows how exactly to do this, and shows how to use a pin stitch to end your thread. You can also use a pin stitch to start your thread, it’s a really versatile stitch!



Cross stitch tutorial: how to start cross stitch patterns in the centre

For a small pattern, as long as you have enough fabric it’s not really important whether you get your stitching exactly centred. As in the little Tiny Heart key fob pattern demonstrated in the first video, sometimes you’re going to trim the project close to your stitching so you don’t need to have a big margin. But if you’re working on a bigger or more complex piece, it is very important to make sure you’re starting in the right place, and that your pattern will be centred on the fabric when it’s stitched. Otherwise, you could run out of room for framing or finishing. You could even run out of fabric if you accidentally turn the fabric lengthwise instead of horizontally when starting to stitch, or get the pattern too far off centre. I’ve seen photos of projects that have taken months to get to a certain stage, only to have the stitcher end up in tears because they will run out of fabric as they didn’t centre their piece properly when starting. The video below will show you a few quick tips about how to make sure this never happens to you, and what size margins you should add onto your fabric before cutting it or starting stitching.




Cross stitch tutorial: don’t worry about the back of cross stitch projects

This video talks about the “controversial” theories behind whether you should worry about what the back of your cross stitch projects look like. Especially as a beginner stitcher, it’s easy to get discouraged when you hear well-meaning people tell you “the back is supposed to look like the front.” There are four main reasons that you should be mindful of what the back looks like once you advance in your stitching:

  1. You’re entering the stitching into a competition or fair where the back will be judged.
  2. You’re using very sheer or delicate fabric.
  3. Lumps and tangles on the back will be seen from the front when framing.
  4. You could use up a lot more floss if you carry your threads too far across the back.

Other than these reasons, please try not to be critical of what the back looks like. In the video you’ll see some examples from my own stitching, and from an embroidery artist who celebrates what the back looks like. If you find having a neat back relaxes you, then please do it, but otherwise don’t stress about it. The whole point of stitching is to relax and enjoy the process.



Other cross stitch tutorials mentioned in the videos

Below you’ll find a few links to help you learn more skills! If you subscribe to the Peacock & Fig YouTube channel, you’ll be notified of when new video tutorials come out! There are several playlists in the channel (including the beginners cross stitch playlist listed below). If you have any questions or would like to learn a technique that’s not covered in the videos, please leave a comment below! If you enjoyed these videos, please share this post with your friends, and share the stitchy love! Happy stitching!



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15 Responses

  1. Talena
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    Hi Dana, thank you so much for your videos. Can you please clarify something for me? When you thread a needle, are you supposed to pull it all the way through so the ends meet? Or only partially through?

    • Dana Batho
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      Hi Talena, thanks for your question! How you thread your needle depends on how many strands you’re using. If you’re using two, you can either do one longer strand doubled (called the loop method), or you can do two single strands. It also depends on how you’re anchoring your thread. If you’re using the loop method (https://peacockandfig.com/2015/04/beginning-and-ending-threads-loop-method-pin-stitch/), your loop end is going to be longer than the other end (with the two ends of the floss). Whichever end is going to be the anchoring end (whether you’re using the loop method, a small knot, weaving the ends under other stitches), that end will be longer than the other. It’s best not to put one strand through the eye, then match up the ends (and knot them). The reason is then your needle is actually attached to your floss, so if you make a mistake and have to unpick the last few stitches, you’re going to have to cut your needle off the floss to do that. It’s near impossible to backtrack your stitches with the needle still attached to the floss. Here’s a tutorial I did on needle threaders, this has some examples of threading various needles, I can’t remember if I show a lot of how the thread hangs once the needle is threaded — https://peacockandfig.com/2017/09/needle-threader/. I hope that helps! 🙂

  2. Ray
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    I know this is an odd comment, but where did you get the salmon pattern you showed in one of your tutorials?

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  4. Cross Stitch Kit
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    Modern Cross Stitch Pattern and Cross Stitch Kit at Doityourfamily. I spend almost my free time for all kinds of crafts, especially crochet, embroidery and sewing.

  5. […] continuing where I left off. However, I received some helpful tips from Dana Batho, the author of “Beginners cross stitch: the ultimate tutorial” . She recommended I keep my thread shorter to avoid knots. Another challenge I experience often is […]

  6. […] never tried cross-stitch before it did take me a little while to get my head around it! I found Peacock and Fig’s how to video really helpful just to get my head around the basic premise of cross stitching. But […]

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    I am using an 11 count cloth says we use 3 strands embroider, 2 strands. Does this mean use 3 strands or two to sew with? I used two but it is not covering up the stamped pattern can you help me?

    • Dana Batho
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      Hi Donna! I’m sorry you’re having difficulties, that’s never fun. Without seeing the actual chart, I’m not sure — many stamped cross stitch kits come from China, and the instructions haven’t been translated well. For 11 count I’d definitely use 3 strands, but whether that means you’ll run out of floss I’m not sure. If you’re in any cross stitch groups online (like on Facebook), you can share an image of the colour key or instructions, and there’s likely to be someone else in the group who’s done a similar kit. Good luck, I hope you figure it out! 🙂

  9. Paula
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    Hi Dana!
    I love all your videos! You helped me learn how to cross-stitch and now I am hooked!
    I was wondering if you had already wrote a blog or created a video about how to put the tread in the needle for backstitch, 2 treads, 3 treads. You showed the loop method in one of your video and I cannot figure for the life of me how to insert the tread in my needle.
    Thanks for your help and your very helpful and wonderful tutorials!

    • Dana Batho
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      Hi Paula, thanks for your comment! I’m glad the videos have helped you learn, that’s great! I don’t have a video specifically about how to thread your needle, but for backstitch it’s usually only one thread. So if you trim off the edge of your strand of floss (so it’s a nice straight edge), and carefully put it through the eye of your needle, that should work. Many people also dampen the end of the floss a bit, that helps it go through the eye of the needle easier. Don’t forget, with backstitch it’s easier to use a sharper needle (not a tapestry needle). You can also use a needle threader, you can get them at any craft or sewing store. Just be careful to not pull too hard with a needle threader, sometimes the fine wires in the threader aren’t secured very well and they’ll pull out with too much tension. Here’s a link to a good article that has some pictures you can see – http://www.sew4home.com/tips-resources/sewing-tips-tricks/hand-sewing-thread-needle-tie-knot. 🙂 If I’m threading two strands for my loop method, what I do is fold the floss in half, and then I actually feed the loop (the folded part) through the eye of the needle. If you’re wanting to thread two or more strands without using the loop method, what I do is fold the floss very tightly over the eye of the needle (folding it in half near the end of the floss). Then I pull the needle out, keeping the floss folded very tightly in between my fingers. Usually that flattens the floss so much you can just push the eye of the needle over the folded floss, and your needle will thread that way. Please let me know if any of these tips help, or if you still need some help with photos or something. 🙂

  10. Andrey
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    Hey Dana! I love blogs and videos of cross-stitch for beginners. I also love one men also cross-stitch, embroidery and texture designer. Can you do more videos on manbroidery. I am also a beginner cross-stitcher and as you may have guess I am a proud male to say that a cross-stitcher.

    • Dana Batho
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      Haha hi Andrey, thanks very much for your comment! I may be doing a video about “men who make textiles” at some point, the head of Kreinik threads is the son of the original founders and might be available to talk about what he does. I’m not sure when that would be, but I am thinking about how to best do a video interview like that. 🙂 Have you heard of Rosey Grier? I wish I’d known about him before I did my manbroiderers video, he’s an ex-NFL player who ended up getting really involved in stitching (and wrote his own needlework book for men). Apparently his hands were so big, he had to get his wife to thread the needles. 🙂

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